“White Boys” in High Demand

If you’re a white guy with a thing for black women, than you are in luck.  A recent story by the Washington Post revealed that marriages between black women and white men are on the rise.  According to a 2008 population survey, interracial marriages have doubled over the past decade.

So why is this becoming more commonplace? According to the story, black women are in “market failure.” Single black women with college degrees outnumber single black men with college degrees almost 3 to 1 in major urban areas.  These women are having trouble meeting a black man who meets their standards.  Therefore, they are giving up on tradition and looking outside their race for a mate.

This is good news for white men such as myself, who have always fantasized about a black woman.  However with my recent engagement, it shall remain a fantasy…and I’m ok with that.  I’m happily engaged.  Living in New York— the melting pot of the world—I really have no excuse for not making it happen while I had the chance.  But it’s not too late for you!  My fellow Anglo-Saxons, now is the time to act!  Beautiful black women are out there and they are looking for you!

The story also goes on to discuss a book titled “Don’t Bring Home a White Boy: And Other Notions That Keep Black Women from Dating Out.” (side note: I never much cared for the term “White Boy.” I feel it has negative connotations.  I really wish the term didn’t get thrown around so easily but I digress…)

In this book, author Karyn Langhorne Folan, reveals her research and cites a number of reasons why black women are hesitant to date white men.  The top reason: “After slavery I would never want to date a white man.” SERIOUSLY?  The Civil War ended a while back and no one alive right now experienced it.  Slavery was an awful part of American history but don’t blame white people living in the 21st century for that.  That can’t really be the number one reason.

Also on the list at #5 is, “White men don’t find black women attractive unless they look like Beyonce.” Hmm…That seems like a pretty specific response.  That many black women specifically mentioned Beyonce?  That’s remarkable!

Meanwhile #9 is simply… we’d be too different. That seems like a more viable excuse to me.  Why is that #9?

Whatever the concerns are, some black women are ready to do whatever it takes to find a man, even if it means dating a white boy.  So men, if you love black women—even if they don’t look like Beyonce—then get out there! Go find yourself an ebony queen! Do it for me!

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  1. Slaveboy says:

    Hello Ladies- i am a single lonely white slaveboy who is seeking a beautiful african woman with big breasts to make me into her personal property as soon as possibly.
    I will always be in the nude for her and have to enjoy being shaven completely bald and hairless for the rest of my life for her.

  2. JBH says:

    No thanks. I really dont like black women.

  3. Joe says:

    I find plenty of black women attractive. The ones I don’t find attractive share characteristics with white and Hispanic women that I find unattractive – they’re either just plain nasty looking, or uneducated, or stupid, or boring, or I just have nothing in common with them. It’s not a racial thing really.

    They don’t have to look like Beyonce although if she does that’s a major plus, I mean, c’mon, I think most black guys would also hit that if they had the chance, so why is it so bad when a white guy wants to?

    The issue I have with the black women I have dated is they tend to be lousy kissers (no tongue) but perhaps that’s just bad luck on my part.

  4. Kema says:

    lol @ the tongue issue! They were probably holding back. Dont be afraid to try again.

  5. Joe says:

    Thanks, Kema! I’ll keep that in mind!

    FWIW I’m not one of those “swallow her face and lick her tonsils” guys…I just mean the sensual use of a low to moderate amount of tongue that makes for great kissing!

  6. Brina says:

    I want to date a white man….I think they have a lot to offer…I could see myself with one.. =)

  7. JD says:

    I really would like to date a black women. I’ve tried in the past but it never comes to be. I live in west Texas, and the black women here don’t seem to have any interest in dating a white man. Who knows maybe I should move.

  8. Joe says:

    The only caveat for me (as a white guy) is I don’t care for the “ghetto” attitude, but that’s not limited to black women, plenty of Latina and White girls act that way too. I just like professional, educated women who can still cut loose and have fun, of any race.

    In other words, I’d date Gabrielle Union over Pink, and Kate Winslet over Lil Kim.

  9. JD says:

    Brina, ever thought about coming to Texas

  10. Brittney says:

    im black and i have dated white guys, to be honest i have dated more white guys than black guys… so white guys do not be scared to talk too a black lady lol:)

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