This post is part of the “ Links of the Month” Segment for February 2011.
According to H-Spot.com, a sex education web site, there are 14 sex mistakes that men make. It’s a pretty solid list and admittedly, I’ve been guilty of a few, not because of ignorance, but because of laziness. For example, the first mistake men make is asking to have sex…
“Asking to have sex is like asking your mother if you can have a girl over your own apartment. When you ask, you immediately show a lack of confidence and control – two essential alpha characteristics that deep-down, all women crave. Solution: Work up the physical escalation ladder by starting out with basic touching and kissing. She will respectfully stop you if she doesn’t want sex.”
This is probably true if you’re single and trying to bang some girl you just met. However, if you’re in a long-term committed relationship, I don’t think this rule applies. Who wants go through all the effort of trying to get laid when you get married? I know I don’t. Easy sex is supposed to be one of advantages of marriage.
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